Everyone and Everything is Sexy

A lot of people ask this so…

Quick run down of me:

I’m 22.  I’ll be 23 in June.

I moved up to Alaska when I was 18 for college.

I finished my Bachelor of Arts in Psychology when I was 20.  I did that by not having a social life, taking 21+ credits every semester, and taking summer semesters every year.  Shaved off my entire senior year.

I just graduated with my Master of Science in Counseling Psychology.  The program is 2 years standard.

I’m not going for my PhD (although I’d be going for my PsyD anyway) or any other degree for that matter until I pay off my loans.  That’s gonna take me some time…but I’ve a plan.  Maybe.  Right now is the magical mystical ‘grace period’ before the interest compounds and they start demanding monthly payments.

Oh!  But that’s okay—after 10 years, if I make 120 full monthly payments without ever being late or deferring or anything, I get the loans forgiven!….and I’m on a 10-year repayment period.  Yeah, fuck that noise, I think I gotta get rid of these loans MUCH quicker.  I’ve turned tricks before but now that I’m in a relationship…I might just make time for video commissions now.  I’m not looking to pay off the mountain of debt I got, but at least to put a tiny dent in it.

ANYWAY—after I pay my loans I’m looking to work on a paramedic certification and welding certificate.  I’ve been told paramedic’s a waste and I should just go for RN.  I’m currently working on (well, not really, but I plan to start within the next week) my LPC and CDC-1.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years now—dating for 4.  I don’t post pictures of him.  There is a video of us fucking, it’s on my pay channel.

If you come up, sure, we can go for a beer.  And I mean that—a beer.  As much as I’d love to get bred by a shit-load of my xtube/tumblr followers, I’d also like to not level up my STD-stats—I tend to attract that, apparently.

There are no ‘good’ gay bars up here.  This is Alaska.  It’s “red”der than Texas.  We got like 3 gay bars.  No, they aren’t ‘scene’ but certainly a different crowd for each.  I don’t mind which one we go to.

Any questions?

I got asked if I offer distance counseling, like through Skype or email

I’m afraid I can’t.  Well, technically I could, but ethically, I shouldn’t.  If you’re interested in counseling, please give it a try—more than once.  Just like not all doctors click with all patients, not every counselor is for everyone.  Don’t touch anyone who calls themselves a “certified life coach” - you want to look for someone with the initials “LPC” after their name.  Expect to pay between $80-$120 a session, and the first one (paperwork and assessment) should be free as a ‘consultation’.  Pay cash, or be ready to do a hell of a dance with insurance.  BE HONEST with your reason for seeking counseling, and have an answer to the question “How will you know when your counseling is over?”  Also ask your counselor how they view the counseling relationship. 

EVERYONE could use counseling, especially counselors.  I have a counselor and so should you!  Remember, you’re not going to a psychiatrist, so you’re not going to get prescribed meds or diagnosed with a disorder.